Plotting is a healthy thing to do. It’s probably better to do it alone or with a very close friend, not sitting across from your brother.
Anonymous asked: I'm not sure if this is something you are ok talking about, but its been heavy on my mind for a long time. I orgasmed during my rape. It was within my dissociation, and I didn't want to, but... it happened. I'm so scared to learn if I'm alone or not.
You are absolutely not alone. From what I’ve heard, this can actually be pretty common.
Your body does not know the difference between mentally wanting sex and not mentally wanting sex. All it knows is that there is stimulation and it will act accordingly.
For some people, emotions play a huge part in whether they can orgasm or not. For others, it’s purely a physical thing.
I think some people feel like if they orgasmed or if they PHYSICALLY enjoyed the stimulation during their abuse then it doesn’t actually constitute as abuse and that is so so so wrong. Because your body is going to do what it knows to do when there is a certain kind of stimulation and sometimes there’s no way you can control what your body chooses to do in a situation like that. AND THAT IS OKAY. The only problem is that it can make the situation really confusing for the survivor since there really isn’t a conversation about this in many survivor communities.
You did absolutely nothing wrong. Your body reacted the way it felt it was supposed to.
You are not alone.
Harry Potter Treats
Yer a wizard Amanda. The four words that were never once said to me *sadness*. However, we can make up for that! Imagine my immense joy at having found recipes straight from Hogwarts, Hogsmeade and Honeydukes. I might have squealed a bit. From Acid Pops to Chocolate Frogs to Licorice Wands to Cockroach Clusters to Butterbeer and BUTTERBEER CUPCAKES. Wut. And as an added bonus some Caldron Cakes if you ever feel like taking a Potions class. It’s okay to cry; I know how you feel. I’m dying to make these too. You can thank me later.
OMFG SO CUTE WANT TO MAKE THESE AND HAVE A HARRY POTTER PARTY.
Submissions from firstname.lastname@example.org.
Male Cruella De Vil is now finished (with Fur coat!) based on SakimiChans design.
petition to get that man a real fancy photoshooting with a pro!
It looks like Landon finally found something to like at Alex’s coffee shop.
These next two months are often hectic and filled with lots of events related to the holidays.
So I did a thing.
Speaking of me being miserable tomorrow. I should have reblogged this Friday- sorry about that.
which fucking fedora wearing friendzoned nerd made this thing
yeah but notice that the seal’s intent is to eat those fish and the shark offers a mutually beneficial relationship for them
in which a dudebro unintentionally makes a really accurate analogy for the reason that they’re single forever
That’s a whale shark. They’re docile and in no way threatening to people or those fish depicted. Seals, by contrast, will attack people, possibly out of a frustrated sense of entitlement combined with poor socialization skills.
Well that backfired spectacularly.
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